Talk to someone to whom you would not normally talk, and with whom you would not ordinarily speak. You must do this in person and not via any media: i.e. no telephone, email, chat, video, cell phone, or other communication technology. In advance, select the person, contact them and ask them at least five open ended questions…
Too bad I didn’t know about this ten days ago! I flew to Toronto on Friday afternoon for a Scouts Canada National Leadership Summit, spent the weekend there and flew back home Sunday evening. I had a ton of interesting conversations with people I’d not known previously! Five stood out for me:
#1 – Next to me on the flight from Halifax to Ottawa was a young man, a university student, who was a knitter – once we were in the air, he hauled out his knitting (he was working on sleeves for a sweater he was knitting for his husband), I brought out the socks I was working on. We had a wonderful chat, about what he was studying, his trying to decide whether to attend graduate school straight away or to take some time off, about his favourite brand of knitting needles, the kind of knitting he liked to do, how long he’d been at it, what had started him off. We were in Ottawa before either of us knew it (it’s an hour flight).
#2 – From Ottawa to Toronto, a young university professor (Carleton) sat next to me and we had a great conversation about climate change and teaching and technology. We exchanged email addresses so I could send her some resources I had on hand I thought she’d find interesting.
#3 – Friday evening at the Leadership Summit, in the lobby bar, I became involved in a conversation with a Scouter from Calgary – involved as a Council Commissioner in charge of program – he had lots of questions and concerns about The Canadian Path and the pilot testing of the 4 Elements on which the revised program is based – we started out quite a distance apart (in part because of what he does, he’s VP Business Excellence, Operations Support Teams for a Calgary based oil company) – language was the barrier, but it didn’t take long for us to understand we were supporting the same process for how to roll out The Canadian Path – a revamping of scouting in Canada based on Baden-Powell’s belief in youth leadership, youth planning and youth input into the scouting program. I found his business perspective on how to educate/re-educate close to 25,000 adults involved in scouting in Canada helpful – he pushed me to think differently about aspects of the implementation problem the program development team is currently grappling with. We, too, exchanged email addresses – me to send him some of the new material we’ve prepared for the implement phase of The Canadian Path for his thoughts on how we could proceed.
During the weekend I had substantial conversations with several young people – most of them high school students involved in scouting who had interesting things to say about why they were involved, what they wanted to get out of it, what they wanted to see the program become; all of them involved in leadership roles in their councils/areas.
#4 – At dinner at the Pub Saturday evening I sat beside a lawyer from Newfoundland who is also a scouter – we had an engaging conversation about the kind of law he practices, how he got involved in scouting (his children, of course), why he’s continued as his children have grown.
#5 – On the return flight Ottawa-Halifax I was sitting next to a woman who was deeply focused on some work she was doing in a workbook – turned out, she’s just about to retire from her job with a dental equipment/supply business out of France, she wants to become a translator so she’s currently studying French (she was clearly Francophone) to brush up on the technicalities of the language as a lead into courses for translators. We had a great conversation about challenges of learning with a slowing brain, how memorization was much easier for each of us twenty years ago.
However, these conversations don’t count for the challenge! I didn’t prepare in advance – who knew what interesting people I’d actually run into. I certainly didn’t take any photographs of the people I talked to.
So now I’m back home and “talk to someone different” is going to be a challenge – my routine is rather set, I don’t run into new people all that frequently. Yesterday I stopped off at a local fabric store to pick up some indigo-dyed fabric to use to back the quilt I’m currently working on. I realize that while I know the women who work there, I don’t really know much about them at all. So I guess I’ll head back there in a day or two and see if one of them will spend a few minutes with me in conversation! And I’ll be sure to take some pictures this time.
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